January 10, 2011
Self Judgement.. you know exactly what it means without me having to go any detail. Assigning assuming thoughts of what others may think of you, your clothing, your speech, your car, your shoes, your smile, where you live or how you do your hair or lack there of.
It’s one of the easiest ways to sabotage ourselves from attaining the lifestyle we want to have, subtly seducing ourselves into the addictions of “the future” or “If I only had X, this would be better”… and that future we have vested ourself into doesn’t appear nor does X show up and make it all better. And here you are sitting here reading this wondering, “how do I stop getting let down like this? I’m tired of disappointment!”
So lets step back for a moment and ponder what it is I’m talking about here.. what is it levying this constant barrage of self judgement.. I’ve already given it a name once. Why is it that your confidence to run keeps finding its foot nailed to the floor? Why won’t we ask the stunningly beautiful woman out? Why don’t you talk about your Network Marketing business? Why do you not see yourself soaring, creating income with your own ingenuity and positive attitude?
Circle back around and we find Self Judgement standing on the back door step with a hand on the door knob and one foot coming through while talking about all the assumed thoughts, actions, or results you can possibly imagine…
Oh the paralysis of it all!
The best is yet to come! It’s when others are willing to dish out their own fears and self judgement towards you which are, in reality, their own hold ups! And sometimes we adopt them as if they were our own as well… as if we didn’t have enough to work with.
In the end only you can stop the madness.. stop judging others.. more to importantly stop judging yourself by cutting assumptions from your daily mental diet and work with what is here and now, in the moment.
Colin Bulla is a Certified Life Coach and Professional Network Marketer. Call 239-878-2328 or email email@example.com to arrange an interview to receive coaching or to work with his amazing networking team of sharp men and women changing their financial stars!